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Nobody is attracted to absolutely everyone, and we all have our various likes and dislikes when it comes to compatible sex partners.
There is nothing wrong with having preferences and being selective. Experienced swingers understand this. It is never fun when swingers beak-up. Put yourself in their shoes, and consider how you would like to be turned down if you were the rejectee.First Time Swinger Tips. Swinging EXPLAINED!
Consent is important, and it is even more important to assert boundaries in a group sex where it is easier to misunderstand each other. Stand up for yourself and do not compromise your personal swinger boundaries. Feelings are paramount in swinging where intimacy is being shared amongst people we might not know all that intimately.
You should always feel empowered to stand up for yourself especially when dealing with swinging bullies or other lifestyle headaches. Be considerate of the language you use when you turn someone down. Try to avoid saying anything that blames the other person, and instead emphasize that you are turning them down because of your boundaries — not anything they have done wrong.
Swinging and group sex relies on honesty, and you want to foster a sense of trust in your community. If you are caught lying, it might mean people grow to distrust you. Not to mention that a little lie can turn into a much bigger mess. If you are turning somebody down for sex, but actually enjoy their company, explain this and offer another suggestion for something later in the evening i. This might be turning down penetrative sex, or foreplay, or just any sexual activity at all.
Keep your sentences concise and to the point. You can take the abruptness out of phrases like this by making sure you keep your tone of voice gentle. People in the lifestyle know not to take rejection personally. Unless you are a brand new rookie, we have all had to reject someone and have been rejected too many times to count. Respect their choice, just like you would want someone to respect your own choices.
Try not to probe for specific reasons. Maturely accept their decision and let the matter simply fade away. No one likes drama, so make sure to avoid it. Focus on the positive side, being rejected saves you from wasting your time. They will simply disappear and stop responding to you as if they turned into ghosts. It is not the most mature option but it happens. Be considerate Be considerate of the language you use when you turn someone down. Offer another suggestion If you are turning somebody down for sex, but actually enjoy their company, explain this and offer another suggestion for something later in the evening i.
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