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The online dating scene has become such a mess ever since Tinder entered society that it has literally become a chore.
Not to say that dating was a wonderland before online options existed but modern dating integrated with technology definitely plays on a different field. Like the internet, dating is faster than ever before. Seriously, you can now meet ten people in ten swipes which takes under a minute to perform. The next fastest option to online dating is in person speed dating events and even in those events, you have to talk to someone for a minute or two before you can move on to the next person.
So how are you supposed to distinguish yourself in the pile of thousands of men and women who are all ready to be judged in an instant? Just a few adjustments can already place you at the forefront of the cutthroat online dating world.
Here are a couple of ways both men and women can distinguish themselves in online dating.
Literally, have a picture that is clear and not creepy. Everyone has a smartphone equipped with a decent camera now.
How are people still taking pixelated images? Moreover, why do people insist on posting bathroom mirror selfies? Nothing screams low-effort more than a bad picture.
This is actually pretty pathetic to admit but having a clear hehot already places you way ahead of the competition. The longer your bio is, the more reasons someone has to omit you. Your bio should be short and sweet, two sentences or four facts describing you at most. The fact of the matter is, having an excessively long bio makes you look a little desperate and puts people off the same way they would be put off if you told them everything about yourself on the first date.
Just be a little different. Online dating tends to downplay the individuality of humans and this is an outcome of having the option to meet so many people so fast. When swiping through or texting someone online, talk to them to get to know them. Remember, this is just a tool to meet people. Although this is a piece of technology, real people are using it; sympathize with that and treat others how you would want to be treated. The best way to distinguish yourself in any aspect of life is to simply be yourself and online dating is no outlier to this fact.
Your matches are looking to meet real people, which means the only way you can get their attention is by giving out real responses. Online dating can bring in a lot of beautiful experiences and relationships if done correctly. When you really think about it, meeting potential dates online is not too much different than meeting them anywhere else; the same attraction principles apply.
In the grand scheme of things, it is just another way to meet people that is neither superior nor inferior to any other method. Keep an open mind and online dating can be a truly satisfying and fun experience. Life is all about transforming your negatives into positives. NYC based. Feel free to contact me at: AaronZhu96 gmail.
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